Got a great Question from a reader this week: “My mother has been in and out of the hospital for the past month. I’ve offered to take my father to the hospital to visit (he doesn’t drive any more), and he always says “No, you don’t have to…” …and then later it turns out he [...]
THEY’RE BACK!!! It’s official – the Holidays are upon us! Even if you’re not about to be inundated for Thanksgiving, you may be facing that scenario a month from now with the December holidays also coming up fast. So…if your family gatherings tend to be at all contentious or otherwise uncomfortable, now is a really [...]
My Answer: Part 2 Part of the problem with feeling betrayed is that you can’t “unring the bell” and erase the behavior. Another big challenge when it involves a family member, is that you can’t just stop being related to that person and thereby avoid them altogether! Between wishing you could erase it, struggling to [...]
Here’s a Question I received recently from a subscriber: “For a long time I have been feeling betrayed by some of my family members because of a history of being hurt and lied to by them. I can’t understand why they did it, and it seems impossible to let go of my anger about it. [...]


